Daniel the Smile Maker

Daniel is a young man who has a smile on his face which is extremely contagious – you can’t help but smile back at Daniel when he smiles at you. Daniel has a learning disability; autism and additional mental health needs. His family adore him and will do anything they can to support him to be a well, happy and active man.

His personal journey has been a difficult one, he has experienced health related challenges that have frequently changed the course of his life, but with the support of his family these challenges have been overcome, enabling him to arrive at where he is today.

MacIntyre began supporting Daniel during one of a number of admissions to an inpatient assessment and treatment unit. We worked alongside family and another care provider to understand Daniels needs and provide support to enable his discharge transition back home to his family, then later into shared accommodation with other young men.

I became a Shared Lives Carer when Daniel was going through a further mental health related challenging time. During this time support was being provided at his parents’ house, Dan was struggling with his mental health and recovery was proving difficult for all involved. I felt my family and I could offer Dan the opportunity to spend time with us, enabling his parents to re charge their batteries. His family were pleased at this prospect and with everyone working together the creativity of the support provided really helped Daniel to recover – this was in a real partnership way.

One of the fears Daniel has had for such a long time is the fear of dogs. His Mum and Dad expressed their sadness at this as in the past he had been so confident with them. The fear impacted on Daniel’s day to day life as so many of his activities would be hindered by the prospect of meeting a dog when out and about.

I am pleased to say that as part of sharing our lives he has developed a renewed confidence with dogs. This renewed confidence took time to develop. Working out the right time to introduce Dan to our dogs, in relation to his stage of wellbeing, proved to be the first step towards success. Starting with him watching them play in the garden and gradually moving them closer into his space at a pace that matched his overall growing confidence levels has achieved success. He now enjoys walks with his new best friends Rolo and Buddy, he even sneaks a snuggle on the couch with his pal Rolo.

Andrea Parr
Area Manager
Warrington

Comments

  • Kate Webb says:

    Oh Andrea, this is heartwarming! How wonderful that Daniel has made such positive progress and has gained confidence in areas of his life he previously found so difficult. Well done to you and to your family for giving so much kindness, time and effort. Oh and well done to Rolo and Buddy – I wouldn’t mind a snuggle on the sofa with them too!!

  • Natalie Macpherson says:

    What a lovely smile Daniel has! Lovely to read that you, your family and dogs have contributed to his happiness.

  • Nicola Payne says:

    When I first heard you talk about Daniel and the journey you have been all together its was so inspiring and to see it in a blog is great. Thank you fro sharing .Love that Daniel now loves the dogs too.

  • Wendy Cook says:

    I have had the privilege to meet Daniel at social events and as Andrea quite rightly describes Daniel smile is contagious.

    Thank you for sharing a lovely blog Andrea.

  • Tess Marshall says:

    This made me smile too, Andrea.

  • Emma Killick says:

    Daniel’s smile is very contagious but your blog makes me smile too Andrea – such a journey. Daniel has come so far and been able to rise above so many challenges because he has such great support from his family and of course from you and many others. As a dog lover I’m really pleased that he is now able to enjoy a snuggle with Rolo – best therapy there is.

  • lyn forster says:

    What a lovely smile and how well Daniel has done becoming a friend to the two dogs

  • Sally Lee says:

    Daniel is definitely a smile maker. His infectious personality makes me feel so priveledged to support him. I have seen the fear that he has experienced when coming into contact with dogs in the community and how this has impacted on his daily activities. This is amazing to see that he is now, not only, very fond of your dogs but able to happily walk past dogs in the street. Amazing! Well done!!

  • donald says:

    Hiya Daniel what a nice story with nice pictures. I could do with an ice-lolly right now. Keep smiling always.

  • Alicia Dominguez says:

    I really liked this story, feeling that it was writing (and supporting) with the heart.
    Thank you

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