Terry* has been supported by MacIntyre for many years, and today he lives in a bungalow in a quiet over-50s cul-de-sac in Chester. It’s a place where he feels at home; he knows his neighbours, chats as he passes, and often pops out to water someone’s plants or help with the bins.
Before moving into his bungalow, Terry lived in residential homes across Cheshire, but shared living didn’t suit him. He likes to follow his own routines and make his own decisions, and it was harder to do that in a busy house with other people.
In 2015, when his previous home was due to close, Terry was supported to explore what he wanted next. With Sanctuary Housing, Trafford Council and MacIntyre alongside him, he visited several options and chose the bungalow he lives in now. Being close to buses and trains mattered to him, as he doesn’t drive, and he likes being able to get out when he wants.
Terry is supported one-to-one by a small team of three male staff. They provide support during the day and a sleep-in at night, giving him the consistency he prefers. He knows each team member well, and together they’ve built routines that fit how he wants to live.
Terry thrives on being busy. During the week, he’s out and about most days. He takes part in drama, woodwork, a wellbeing project, a lunchtime club and bingo. He loves music, theatre shows and concerts, and enjoys local discos during the week.
Weekends are for things he has planned in advance, whether that’s a show, a day trip, or a short break. Terry enjoys weekends away, but only for a night or two, as he doesn’t want to miss his regular activities or change his routine too much. Recently he returned to Welshpool for a two-day country and western event, something he looks forward to every year.
Terry has also been clear that he’d like a relationship of his own. Staff support him to explore what that means, including learning more about relationships, sexuality, and the kind of partnership he hopes for.
Another important part of Terry’s life in recent years has been reconnecting with his sister after a long period with little contact. Terry is leading the way, choosing how often to meet and what feels right, with his team alongside him so the relationship can grow at his pace.
Living in his own home, with support shaped around what matters to him, has given Terry the space to be himself. He’s active, involved, and part of a community that knows him. And whether he’s cooking, planning his next theatre trip, or picking out a birthday card for his sister, Terry is living a life that truly feels like his own.
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